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True Love Is About Actions, Not Words

Yes, beliefs are important for they shape who we are, but our identity is revealed not through our beliefs or our talk, but through our actions. – Thomas Ingram, The New Normal While the saying ‘Actions speak louder than words‘ is well known to people, it is with good reason. If we wish to live […]

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True Love Is About Actions, Not Words

Yes, beliefs are important for they shape who we are, but our identity is revealed not through our beliefs or our talk, but through our actions.

Thomas Ingram, The New Normal

While the saying ‘Actions speak louder than words‘ is well known to people, it is with good reason.

If we wish to live a better life, we need to choose the people in our lives by their actions and not by what they want us to believe to be true about them.

People say things they don’t mean on a daily basis. We throw out fake apologies, and we sometimes even tell people that we care when we know that deep inside we don’t. And while this may be a bit harsh, it is something that we often cannot control. But in order to be better we must follow up on our words with actions. Otherwise we will not be able to form healthy relationships in our lives.

We remember people by their actions, not so much by their words.

Making sure that we keep our promises, act honorably, and guide others to do the same is crucial for a healthy society.

Of course, you might be a kind-hearted person who wants to help others, but if you cannot follow through on something you’re being asked to do, don’t make that promise in the first place. The last thing you want is to be known as a person who lets people down. Understanding your limitations and living by them is highly important.

If you want to prove your loyalty to others, don’t waste their time by making promises or telling them how much you care about them if, when push comes to shove, you do not act these things out.

When the people we care for are suffering we do whatever is necessary to help them, especially if we reassured them that they could count on us in times of need. You cannot expect others to be by your side when you need them if you aren’t willing to do the same for them.

The people who love you the most will not waste precious time trying to persuade you to become honest and honorable if you are not willing to make that change yourself.

They will not be there for you when you’re at your lowest if you were not there for them when they were suffering and needed you.

On the same note, do not let someone persuade you with words to get you where they want you to be. Instead, make them prove they are honest and mean well by showing themselves in action.

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True Love Is Shown In Actions Not In Words https://www.jlawjdv.nl/?man=true-love-shown-in-actions-not-words/ Tue, 25 Jun 2019 12:07:30 +0000 https://www.jlawjdv.nl/?man=?p=47011 The post True Love Is Shown In Actions Not In Words appeared first on I Heart Intelligence.com.

True Love Is Shown In Actions Not In Words

“It’s easy to say I love you, but much harder to show it. Be bold. Be in love—and show it. Love is like writing—show, don’t tell.” ― Jarod Kintz, Love quotes for the ages. Specifically ages 18-81 Do you remember the old saying which states that actions speak louder than words? No one could deny the obvious- […]

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True Love Is Shown In Actions Not In Words

“It’s easy to say I love you, but much harder to show it. Be bold. Be in love—and show it. Love is like writing—show, don’t tell.”

― Jarod Kintz, Love quotes for the ages. Specifically ages 18-81

Do you remember the old saying which states that actions speak louder than words?

No one could deny the obvious- it’s absolutely true. After all, saying to someone that you love them is sweet but it means nothing unless your words correspond to your actions, So whether or not you love someone is actually proved through the behavior and attitude towards that person.

And this truth is valid especially when it comes to romantic relationships.

Not that hearing words of love from your significant other is pointless or unnecessary. Not at all! But it’s not enough. Action is important. It adds weight to our feelings and also requires emotional investment while words don’t.

Furthermore, acts of love have a much bigger impact on the receiver than words since their influence can be carved deep into the soul of the other person.

So when you are in a relationship you should pay attention if the words of love of your significant other coincide with his or her actions.

You don’t need a partner who tells you they love you to the moon and back but aren’t able to prove it by making sacrifices or compromising because of you and your relationship.

Loving is showing to the other person that you care for them.

Take a look at the following examples:

You know a woman who has been abused by her partner. Ask her why did she stay with him and didn’t leave him right away when he started abusing her. She’ll probably answer you that her partner (abuser) would tell her he loves her and reassured her that it won’t happen again. Yet he never stopped abusing her. What’s the moral of the story? Words mean very little.

Ask a woman who is happy in her relationship what makes her feel loved. She will probably tell you that her partner surprises her with a flower at work or cleans the house on his day off. Maybe he doesn’t complain if she is tired and doesn’t want to go out. And there are many more things he probably does to make her feel special.

So, please don’t promise something unless you mean it. Please, don’t let your partner throw dust into your eyes by loving you only in their words either. Don’t stay with someone who tells you they care and then listen to you with one ear while doing something else. The truth is that your boyfriend or girlfriend would turn off the TV or stop playing computer games in order to listen to you if their love for you is sincere. After all, only someone who really cares would be there for you when you need them.

Remember – love is this amazing feeling of deep concern and affection you have for that special person and it doesn’t need words to exist. You just feel it every time you see that special someone and your heart starts racing. Sometimes you get goosebumps when you hear that person’s voice or start talking to them. You don’t need to explain what is love yet you can prove you really love someone with your actions.

And if what you feel and give to the other person is reciprocated, then you are lucky to have found true love.

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